Tag Archives: Contemplative Prayer

Solidarity in Opposites: A Lenten Contemplation

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Filed under A Beautiful Mess, Thoughts on life

This past Thursday, Nate and I took the metro into downtown LA for the monthly art walk event.  Dozens of businesses and stark empty halls transform into colorful displays as dusk approaches.

First, we found our way to the menagerie of food trucks nestled tightly together in vacant parking lots.  Now full with colorful doors and windows shaping an eclectic food court we were almost paralyzed by our options: pulled pork, creative wraps, dim sum, fusion tacos. It was a feast for the eyes, ears, and nose for sure.

After our bellies were content from the Lobster Truck and French Fried Chicken Truck, we meandered through the different art galleries.  We pondered the meaning of someone taking old scraps and binding them together with glue and paint to make a wonderful art statement.  We were also struck by the notion that in a city struggling to redefine itself, we were instantly handed maps to art walk despite the others walking by too.  Did we stick out that much?

The sites, sounds, tastes, and feelings made for a night of sensory overload, but there was one picture whose impact has stuck with me.

Linda Alterwitz displayed her work where she took x-rays and laboratory images and fused/superimposed them on photographs of the environment and nature.  There were algae that looks like small stars over a pictures of a seaside pier. A canine hip jutted out of the ocean, making it look like angels were descending from the clouds.  As people moved dutifully from picture to picture, my eye kept wandering back to one of her pieces.

At a glance it looked like an old photo gone wrong, something to disregard, but if you lingered, something else emerged.  It was black and white, simple enough to miss, but wrought with profundity.  Its fuzziness either captured someone’s interest or sent them on their way (and I can’t help but think the same it true when we’re dealing with people too).  Read More »

Perfectionist Pictures

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Filed under A Beautiful Mess, Art Journaling, Workshops/Retreats

Saturday I had the honor of hosting a workshop at my home.  I was excited even before these seven women came over because I knew a little bit about almost all of them and also predicted that they would get along splendidly.  Lucky for me, I was right.  They came in ready to slow down, relax, breathe, and share and I couldn’t have asked for a more beautiful day with them.

We all need permission from each other once in a while to show the true colors of our souls and our colors came spilling out.  They merged with one another and what seemed unbearable and lonely before transformed into something with hope, messy yes, but beautiful because honesty was present.  So enjoy these pictures of our day together and I hope at some point, I can share this experience with more of you.

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tweets and workshops

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Filed under A Beautiful Mess, Workshops/Retreats

just a few quick items:

> Kristin is on Twitterfollow her shorter musings there – would love to see more of you (and follow you)

> There was an error on the newsletter listing two dates for the Perfectionism Workshop (new tag line – it’s about releasing perfection, not perfecting it).  The workshop is on Saturday, January 22nd. There are still spots available – would love to have you come.  Click here and scroll down for more information.

Ungrind interview

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Filed under A Beautiful Mess, The Book

My dear friend and fellow writer, Christin Taylor, interviewed me about the book not too long ago.  She is extremely talented and gifted in her own rite and I was honored to do this.  Check out the interview here. Let me know what you think or what other questions you have.

Cypress Book Tour Stop

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Filed under A Beautiful Mess, Living Room Tour

Last night I had the absolute fortune of meeting a lovely group of women in Cypress, Calif.  I was greeted by my wonderful hosts, Jamie and Kasey, where I was also introduced to these -

Exhibit A:

Yes those are cookies, but they are very special and I can honestly say that this is the first cookie that practically made its way up my nose because this is what you do with them -

Exhibit B:

(so hot right now) Read More »

BOOK GIVEAWAYS (and the first 3 chapters) just in time for Christmas!!

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Filed under A Beautiful Mess

In honor of having 300 copies of A Beautiful Mess sold in the first three months of print, I am going to give out 3 free copies to the first three comments (from separate people) on this blog.  That’s a lot of threes.

Thank you to all of you who have made that number possible. The response has been overwhelming and I have been so moved by the emails and messages you have sent my way.  If you don’t mind posting your thoughts on Amazon, that would be great too.

With the holidays rapidly approaching, I wanted to re-post the first three chapters of A Beautiful Mess: A Perfectionist’s Journey Through Self-Care. The book would make a great gift or stocking stuffer for a girlfriend, a mentoree, your sister, mother, anyone really, maybe even a gift to yourself (it is about self-care after all).

Enjoy checking out the chapters and I hope the book makes it to a shelf near you!  Happy Holidays.

Click the links below to download the chapters

Chapter One: The Infection of Perfection

Chapter Two: Growing Up Perfectionist

Chapter Three: Culture’s Con